Emotions show up on your body in a variety of hand movements, eye twitches, breathing patterns and more. There are so many ways to show what your characters are feeling without boring us as readers by saying, Anabelle felt angry. Yuck! Show me, don’t tell me! If you’re looking for an emotion starting with A through D, check out the other installments of this series, How to Show (Not Tell) Emotion:
By the way, these apply to both the character’s Point of View and the individual watching.
Here are some ideas:
- cold anger
- clenching jaws or grinding teeth
- uncovering the teeth
- stomach ache
- increased and rapid heart rate
- sweating, especially your palms
- feeling hot in the neck/face
- shaking or trembling
Emotionally you may feel:
- like you want to get away
- sad or depressed
- like striking out verbally or physically
Also, you may notice that you are:
- rubbing your head
- cupping your fist with other hand
- getting sarcastic
- losing your sense of humor
- acting in abusive/abrasive manner
- craving a drink, a smoke or other substances that relax you
- raising your voice
- beginning to yell, scream, or cry
- Sweaty palms.
- hand-to-hand, hand-to-body
- hand-behind-head hand-to-face
- the eyes and mouth opened wide, the eyebrows raised
- frown or wrinkle beneath the lower eyelids
- covering the mouth with the hands
- rubbing the side of the nose
- leaning away from you
- micro shrug
- voice pitch increases
- Liars, he says, use more “negative emotion” words (hurt, ugly, nasty) and fewer first-person singulars
- Recent Loss – through death, divorce, separation, broken relationship, loss of job, money, status, self-confidence, self-esteem, loss of religious faith, loss of interest in friends, sex, hobbies, activities previously enjoyed
- forehead is wrinkled in the middle, but not across the whole breadth, as when the eyebrows are raised in surprise.
- Change in Personality – sad, withdrawn, irritable, anxious, tired, apathetic Change in Sleep Patterns – insomnia, often with early waking or oversleeping, nightmares Change in Eating Habits – loss of appetite and weight, or overeating
- Fear of losing control- harming self or others
- Low self esteem- feeling worthless, shame, overwhelming guilt, self-hatred, “everyone would be better off without me” No hope for the future – believing things will never get better; that nothing will ever change
- Other things to watch for- Suicidal impulses, statements, plans; giving away favorite things; previous suicide attempts
- hold body and head erect, square shoulders and clench fists
- curled upper lip
- narrowed or partly closed eyes;
- side-to-side head-shakes;
- protrusions of the tongue.
- guttural sounds (“ach” or “ugh”)
- nose is drawn up and wrinkled
- sneers or snarls at another
- throat-clear is a nonverbal indication of doubt
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Ask yourself – how do you show emotion? What do people do? Each person is different according to their personality. Here are more great tips on how to show feelings.
Excellent suggestions for showing emotions. In my memoir I’m remembering some of the things I used to do – to keep from crying I would make a fist, poking my fingernails into my palm, or poke a fingernail into my let to let me focus on the pain of the nail and perhaps forestall tears. I also used to twist the corner of a Kleenex to make a rope. Biting the inside of my mouth. One other one was to bend the toe next to my big toe so that it caused a nerve to spasm and the pain of that spasm also focused my attention away from the hurt. There was tracing patterns, counting squares on the linoleum, or counting something else. Maybe these would be helpful to someone.
Those are interesting. It’s that kind of detail that brings a story to life.
Handy little guide in general. Conveying emotion is always a challenge, and people don’t realize how much we gain from body language in general. Good to see someone thinking about it. My heart’s speeding up at the mere thought of remaining alphabet. . .
Thanks, Connor. Are you a writer? I tried your link, but it didn’t seem to work.
I’m a writer… unfortunately not much a web designer–I have one website that’s working, but my professional one is down until I figure out how to hit a mySQL database with a hammer.
It’s a great name. WordPress will let you brand their websites for a small (hehe) fee.
I just spent 80 hours tweaking my new website. I’d like to hit it with a hammer too.
Diannegray – you should give some sort of lesson for the rest of us to be able to put it in our writing. I’d be interested anyway.
There you are Diane–just when you thought you were retired. A Webinar opportunity
I hadn’t even thought of some of those – thanks
Since I became conscious of body language, I have enjoyed people watching much more than ever before
When I was working at a government policing organisation I was taught how to read body language (calibrating a person with questions you know are true and then asking the ‘real’ questions). It taught me a lot, but now that I’ve given up my day job to write full time I find it’s followed me and I subconsciously do it when I’m having normal conversations with people. I’ve got to find a way to ‘unteach’ myself because I hate it when someone I know and love starts telling white lies! But then again, it’s very handy when I’m writing a novel 😉
People should come to understand they just can’t lie to you. Period. I know, I hate lying to family and friends.
Um, can you tell in a blog reply if someone is lying?
Body language is great study for writing. And it’s handy in real life too.
Both true. I started my interest in it for writing purposes–to communicate emotions when not in the person’s head–and found I began to read people better. Nice.
I’ve been studying it for a few years. Only downside is when you meet someone and recognize negative postures and facial movements—or worse, signs of deception. Although it’s handy if you’re at the car dealership. 😉